WER BIN ICH MIT DIR? (30. Sep)

What emerges between you and me when we fully surrender to the moment?

Without a goal, without intention, without strings attached.

Closeness or distance, flow or friction, fun or seriousness?

Tantric playfight, cuddling, or do I realise more that you're annoying me?

What am I in the mood for with you when I decide with full authenticity?

What am I actually getting myself into here?

It’s not a workshop, but not a party either – maybe something in between. With lightness AND depth. A space where you can get to know new people or familiar people anew. And what about you? How well do you know yourself? Who are you when you are completely authentic? Is that even possible – or does every encounter tickle out a different facet of you? Who was I yesterday, who am I today, who do I want to be tomorrow?

Here you can explore, among other things, these questions:

• Why am I relaxed with some people and uncomfortable with others?
• Why do I keep attracting certain people?
• Why do I open up immediately with some – and with others stay frozen?
• What do I need to feel safe and authentic in contact?
• And who am I really when nobody expects anything from me?

And the most important thing: there is nothing to optimise. You are exactly right just as you are.

And the second most important thing: it is allowed to be fun! We approach one another playfully. Wrestling, teasing, cuddling, staring, dancing or making mischief? – (Almost*) everything is allowed.

You’ve probably already been to consent workshops, men’s/women’s circles, temples, and maybe you know this feeling of paralysis when, because of all the rules and precautions, you no longer dare to do anything at all. Here, we dare to step a little outside our comfort zone into areas that are just waiting to be mapped by us. We get to know our own boundaries, and if they are crossed, there is a framework in which we are held.

Many things can happen on this afternoon. Probably something deeper than binge-watching Netflix. In any case, you will come into contact, with others, with yourself. Maybe you’ll just have a good time. Maybe you’ll learn something about yourself. Maybe you’ll meet your new bestie here. Or a new romance. Maybe a feeling of belonging and community.

Let’s find out together!

What can you expect specifically?

• We flow into the afternoon with a Conscious Dance / dynamic meditation so that you can arrive fully in your body.
• Then the heart of it: several one-to-one encounters with changing matches in a structured setting, in which you let emerge whatever wants to emerge from your dynamic.
• For the “grand” finale, we meet in groups – completely free and creative, cuddly or wild, sensual or rational – you decide where the journey goes.

In between, we keep tuning in:

• How am I right now? What is my body telling me and what does it need right now?
• What changes when I am alone with myself – and what changes when I enter into contact?
• Which people trigger which sensations in me?

In the group, we share what the experience has triggered in us.

The whole thing is based on a foundation of methods and knowledge from body psychotherapy, tantra, shadow concepts etc. but remains light and playful, perhaps serious, perhaps silly. And if an encounter triggers you, we are there to hold you.

Details

Doors open from 12:45, start 13:00, no entry possible after 13:15.

Duration: approx. 4 hours

Tickets

Regular price: €25. Please choose a price when buying your ticket depending on your financial situation between €20 and €35. If you cannot currently afford even the minimum price, please write to me and we will try to find a solution.

Notes

• This event is a space for self-discovery, NOT group therapy. If there are deep psychological, relationship, or sexual issues you would like to work on, please contact us for individual or couples therapy. If you are unsure, you are welcome to contact us in advance. ([email protected])
• *This is NOT a s€x-positive space. You may allow erotic energies to arise, but explicit s€xual acts are not desired.
• Tickets cannot be cancelled.